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The scene: a swingers' club in Örebro - one of an increasing number across Sweden attracting members of both sexes and of all ages and sexual orientations.
A friend of mine had earlier told me about this club and I thought it would be an interesting experience to do some research on swinging, the phenomenon that started in the 1950s as 'wife swapping'.
They offered to give a “less explicit, yet more intimate” description of how it works out for them.
“We sit at the bar and talk to other couples, discuss what we would like to do, and if they are into it we ask them if they would follow us to our favourite room.
Shutters close the windows to the outside world, while inside couples are just starting to get to know each other.
“Swingers and non-swingers have pretty much the same chances to stay together…
At this point, I was kindly asked to leave the room if I was not going to participate. I found another club in Stockholm's suburbs, a 10 year old Swingers' club with more than 1,000 members.
“It is a club for couples who like to have sex with other couples, while other couples watch,” say the club's owners.
One man seemed to be unsatisfied with his own performance, so he moved aside for another man to join his sexual partner, a middle-aged woman, who seemed concerned about her first partner's feelings, but soon was comfortable with her new position.
Before the man left the room, he was stopped by another woman who offered to help him - ahem - improve his performance.